Outsider

Being the outsider is never easy, they say.
I chose to be an outsider even though I was branded one.
I could have chosen to change myself to fit in but I did not.
So because of my appearance and knowledge, because I do not look like them, I am an outsider.
Excluded from their social lives.

Appearance is everything in this world.
It is the foundation of their egotism and stupidity.
However, I see the truth.
The truth that lies beneath these layers of self-deception and idiotism.
They are afraid.
They are fragile and stupid creatures.
They shun out those who are more advanced than them.
Now you might ask, advanced?
I have found myself.
I know who I am and I like myself for who I am.
They have not found themselves and they hate us because we have.
They are afraid and alone.
They are that because of their lifestyle.
They have not found themselves yet, so they jump the closes wagon they can find and call themselves that.
That is why this generation is filled with idiots.
The media has created a picture of what is perfect, normal and right.
They follow that, blindly.
The media tells girls they need to be skin and bones like the models to look pretty.
The media tells girls they need to get plastic surgery to be beautiful.
The media tells girls they need to loose and cheap to find love.
That is why girls these days have low self-esteem and many of these poor girls decide to commit suicide.
Because if they are not skinny, if they are not filled with plastic, if they are not sleeping around with any guy then they are shot out of our society.
The media tells boys they need to have sex with as many girls as possible to be considered cool.
The media tells boys they need to wear a certain type of clothes to look cool and be respected.
The media tells boys they need to drink and do drugs, as it is cool.
Boys who does not do this are excluded from the society.
A clear pattern is starting to emerge.
I tell you that our society is rotten and deeply wrong.
Young people use the words as “Faggot”, “Queer”, “Gay-ass” and so on as curse words.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with homosexuality nor bisexuality, transsexuality or any other sexual orientation.
Nevertheless, because the society has set a bar for what is normal, everything that isn’t normal is wrong.
Now what is normal?
Philosopher, John Stuart Mill once said; “We tend to accept whatever is usual as natural”.
Usual is natural and normal.
In these days, the ones who are afraid and lost jump the wagon known as “Mainstream”.
If you are not “mainstream”, then you are not normal and then you are excluded from the society that has determined what natural and normal is.
I, for one, am myself.
I cherish that I have found myself, I am proud of it.
If you, the reader of this, feel alone and misunderstood.
If you feel excluded from your school because you are different from them and because you are yourself then let me tell you.

I love you.
I love you of all my heart.
If you are a girl then I will tell you, do not worry.
You are beautiful no matter what anyone says.
You are astonishing and you are yourself.
Do not let the media decide what you are.
You are strong and amazing.
Never bend to the pressure.
Keep on fighting, as long as you are fighting for whom you are.
Good things come to those who are truly themselves.

If you are a boy then I will tell you, be yourself.
Cherish who you are and be confident about it.
Do not do anything stupid, as getting yourself drunk and disrespect women.
Never hit a lady and you will be fine.
Never pretend to be something you are not.
You are strong and cool because you are yourself and you dare to be it.
You dare to go against the majority.

True love will find you if you are yourself.
That is the most important thing.
To be yourself.

If we will ever meet, I will hug you for daring to be yourself and go against the stream.
We are few but proud.
We are those who can truly be ourselves and love it.
So whenever live is tough, do not give up and let normality win.
Fight it and embrace who you are.
For you are truly amazing.
Help those around you and spread the love no matter what.

I say; “To be weird, different, strange or even crazy is a hell of a lot better than being normal”.

So stay strong, be yourself and never give up.
And remember.
I love you.